Womanhood and all that jazz ....

Are you a Fascinating Woman? I love all things about being one, although it sometimes is a huge struggle! The intricacies and dynamics of relationships are just so sobering and astonishing, especially when one is whisked into the world of what a blissful marriage beyond imagination can be? Think it doesn't exist? Think again! But for one to reach those incredible heights you need to understand how it works. But be warned, it is not as simple as it sounds. This could prove to be one of the hardest things for a woman to do ... but the fruits thereof ... is worth it a million times over. There are several secrets to being the most Fascinating Woman for your husband, which I'll share with you on a later occasion. But if you can't wait until then and want to read more about the secrets of Fascinating Womanhood, you can download the book for free at the following link: http://www.healthhouse.co.nz/freestuff/fascinating-womanhood-book-(4mb).pdf




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Hhhmm, as promised, here's the secrets of being a Fascinating Woman:

#1. Accept him as he is. Look to his good side. 
Sometimes it really helps to concentrate and focus on his good attributes. There are always something in your man to be truly thankful for. Besides, when we focus on the positive, it does help us deal better with our frustrations.

#2. A man's greatest need is to be admired for his masculine qualities. His deepest misery is to be belittled by a woman.
There is a whole list of things we women tend to do that violate this rule, and personally, I was aghast to see how many of them I was guilty of in my marriage! If you are doing any of the following, then PLEASE, PLEASE stop! Do you -

• Criticize his weaknesses?
• Speak angrily when he fails in a masculine area of responsibility?
• Disagree with him on masculine matters?
• Pour cold water on his ideas?
• Give him advice when he has not asked for it?
• Discuss his career or occupation as if you know as much about it as he does?
• Remind him how you struggle on his income?
• Tell others how much your parents have done for you since you got married?
• Admire a masculine quality in another man aloud in his presence?
• Suggest he call a repair man when he is trying to repair something?
• Not pay attention when he is telling you about something of which he is proud?
• Not praise him when he does something outstandingly well?
• Tell him he is losing his figure or hair?
• Hold yourself up as an example for him to follow?
• Remind him of your superior education?
• Excel him in a male-dominated sport such as athletics, golf, swimming?
• Going out to work when he would prefer you stayed at home?
• Tell others that you have to go out to work to make ends meet?

#3. Make him No.ONE in your life. Comfort him tenderly when he is tired or discouraged. 

• Appreciate the heavy responsibility a man carries.
• Use the great power of sympathy.
• Comfort him lovingly when he comes home weary.
• Do not raise problems until after he has eaten.

#4. Your husband's God-given role is to lead you and provide from you. Allow him to do it.

• Your role is to be his companion, a mother and a homemaker.
• Let him know your views, but support his final decision 100%.
• Let him worry about the finances.

#5. Men deeply admire inner serenity and goodness in their wives.

• Your husband wants you to be a better person than himself
• Goodness and inner serenity are required in a woman for a man to love her deeply.
• Inner serenity develops in a woman when she becomes free from pride and self-righteousness, always does and says the right thing, is free of guilt and has a forgiving heart.

#6. Your God-given role is that of mother & homemaker. ENJOY it!

• Motherhood is the most noble and important work on earth. Enjoy the wonderful satisfaction of raising happy, secure children. Men respect motherhood.
• Allow time to enjoy your homemaking. Homemaking is a woman's lifelong career. Do it well.
• Cultivate woman friends. Visit together. Do things together. Develop your talents.
• Plan your days in advance by using a desk top calendar planning diary.

#7. Make the most of your hair, figure & health.

• Your appearance is important to a man. Most men find longer, femininely styled hair highly appealing.
• Maintain your ideal weight by regular exercise and sound nutrition.
• A lovely smile is a priceless asset to a woman. 

#8. Femininity delights a man, and depending on him arouses his love.

• To be feminine and attractive to men, do and wear the opposite of what they do. Appear to be helpless in masculine matters.
• Childlike (NOT childish) charm in a woman of any age is delightful to a man.
• Speak cheerfully, with melodious lilt in your voice.

#9. To obtain your wants from your husband, just ask with a smile, as a young girl asks her father.

• Just ask submissively, with a smile and a please.
• Your husband will love you more if you allow him to spoil you a little.
• Show feminine appreciation in an exuberant, childlike way.

10#. Handle anger in a feminine and childlike manner.

• Men respect a spirited woman. Release your anger as soon as it arises, in a childlike manner.
• Show anger against your husband only when you have clearly been mistreated.
• Express it in a feminine, childlike way that allows him to feel manly and protective.

I do realize that perhaps you're thinking, yeah, right! But when you start applying these principles you will start noticing a change in your husband and the way he reacts to you. And then the fun really starts! I challenge you to try it! It works ...!